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Importance of Relationships
Johnny Cash recorded more than 1500 songs, had well over 100 hit singles, was awarded 11 Grammies & sold 50 million records. Much of the credit went to his wife June. At her funeral Johnny's daughter said: "In her eyes there were only two kinds of people: those she knew & loved & those she did not know & loved. She looked for the best in everyone; it was a way of life for her. If you pointed out that a particular person was perhaps not deserving of either her love or attention, she would say, 'Well honey, we just have to lift him up.' She was forever lifting people up.
It took me a long time t understand what she did when she lifted you up. She would mirror the very best parts of you back to yourself. She was like a spiritual detective; she saw into all your dark corners & deep recesses, saw your potential, & the gifts you did not know you even possessed, & she lifted them up for you to see. She did it for all of us, daily, continually. But her great mission & passion was lifting up my dad. If being a wife were a corporation, June carter cash would have been the CEO. It was her most treasured role. She would begin every day by saying, 'What can I do for you John?' Her love filled up every room he was in & lightened every path he walked. Her devotion created a sacred, exhilarating place for them to live out there married life. My daddy has lost his dearest companion, his musical counterpart, and his soul-mate & best friend." That is the power of a great relationship! & Think about this for a minute... If I happened to show up on your door step crying, would you Care? If I called you and asked you to pick me up because something happened, would you come? If I had one day left, to live my life; would you be part of that last day? If I needed a shoulder to cry on, would you give me yours? Or are you are just some one to talk to you when they are bored. . Do you know what the relationship is between your two eyes? They blink together, they move together, they cry together, They see things together and they sleep together, BUT THEY NEVER SEE EACH OTHER... that's what friendship is. Your aspiration is your motivation; your motivation is your belief, Your belief is your peace, your peace is your target, Your target is heaven, and life is like hell without FRIENDS. |